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When you give too much credence to other’s opinions of you or what you do, you are basically telling your true self to zoom off. For example, When people approve of you and your decisions, you feel great! But when they don’t, you feel like crap. That’s definitely a sign of not being yourself. 

What you fail to realize is that when other people’s opinions are more important than yours, you live life on their terms, eventually you are the one who will be left with regret at the end for not having lived a life truly authentic to who you are. 

The truth is, you may never have what you truly want in life unless you learn to shut out other people’s opinions. 

HOW TO STOP OTHERS FROM CONTROLLING YOU. 

TAKE RESPONSIBILITY .

Realize that when you frequently get worried about what others think, it’s a projection. You’re projecting your own fears and your own internalised self Judgement into other people. Avoid mental and physical laziness. If you don’t want people to nag or control you, don’t put yourself in a situation that allows it. Learn to control yourself, so others wouldn’t be forced to do it for you.

DON’T BE AFRAID TO MAKE MISTAKES.  

To err is Human. By being afraid to make mistakes because you don’t want to be held accountable, you’re inviting others to take control of your life. Go on, make mistakes and Go back, correct it.

BEWARE OF SAYING “YES” TO EVERYTHING.

When you say “yes” to everything, you see people running to come with you. They love it while they gaslight you to saying yes to everything.

RESPECT YOURSELF.

Don’t neglect yourself. By not taking care of yourself, you’re subconciously telling others that you need them to nag you and make you “eat better ” bath…

SET BOUNDARIES.

 It is a bit hard but you can do it. If people are tearing you down and making you feel less, then Speak out. Tell them to speak to you respectively, tell them gently and authoritatively.

STOP COMPARING.

 Comparism they say is a killer of joy. Stop looking at what others are doing, wearing or talking. When you drop the comparison and hold yourself accountable to meeting the goals you set up, then you will stop feeling like you’re running a race on a treadmill that won’t stop and let you catch your breath. Stop comparing yourself to others.

MAKE DECISIONS.

By making decisions, you’re making a commitment to yourself and your happiness. You’re making a commitment to living your life based on your desires.

MAKE DECISION TO STOP BEING CONTROLLED TODAY AND LIVE A HAPPY LIFE. BE YOU! 

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